My dear comrade in arms is having a baby! She's 13 weeks, I think 14 on Friday! YAY! They had a great first trimester ultrasound, and everything looks good with le bebe!
I admit that it was very hard to hear she was pregnant so soon after my miscarriage. I know that my situation scared her. Neither of us ever imagined that someone with fertility issues could also be unlucky enough to suffer a miscarriage too obviously, we were wrong. I felt a tremendous amount of guilt. (You would think it would be the other way around!) I felt like I was raining on her parade and taking the joy out of one of the happiest times in her life. I was afraid that she wouldn't want to be my friend anymore because I was such a Debbie Downer. Fortunately, for me Dewey is made of tougher stuff than that!!!
I guess my whole point besides a hearty CONGRATULATIONS to Dewey and her husband, would be that there is no guidebook for this kind of stuff, but life does go on and there are success stories! Keep the faith!
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